"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have some fun for once!

Mavrick

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I'm sick of this sh!t. Reading about self esteem, confidence, tips and tricks about how to pick up women.

Have you ever thought about just having some fun for once? That should be you're main goal. Sh!t, it shouldn't even be a goal. It should just be understood. It should just be a part of your life.

Getting girls is so trivial. It's a small part of life. You can read this **** for years and never get anywhere until you get out of your comfort zone and mingle. Go meet some folks. Go make some friends. I'm serious. Don't let life pass you by because you're defining yourself by the type of women or amount of women you're attracting.

I know that if you can just get out there and just have fun for one, you've taken one of the biggest steps toward being attractive to women without even trying. Go make yourself some memories. Forget women because as soon as you do, they'll start coming right to you. That's just the way it is.

What are your best memories? Do you have any memories? If not, now's the time to make them.

Life is fun! I'm serious. It's fun (but only if you decide it is). If you don't have any friends, go get some. Don't complain that you don't have any, just go. At first, you can hang around the first lonely guy just like you if you want. It's better than nothing. Then you guys will meet new people from there. Then your social circle will expand and the next thing you know... YOU'RE HAVING FUN!

I can tell you this, you'll have some bad times. There's no getting around that, but as long as you're destined for fun, those down times won't even matter.

Like I said, "Have some fun for once!"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good post. Really. That is exactly what I am going to do tonight. I wish more people would get up off the couch and participate in life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This "FUN" you are talking about. Can you elaborate this further please? I need more knowledge how to gain it.
 

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Right on.

Life isn't about attracting girls. I mean, sure it's nice, but the point of your life should not be that. It should be something else.

And life should be fun.
 

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Mavrick said:
I'm sick of this sh!t. Reading about self esteem, confidence, tips and tricks about how to pick up women.

Have you ever thought about just having some fun for once? That should be you're main goal. Sh!t, it shouldn't even be a goal. It should just be understood. It should just be a part of your life.

Getting girls is so trivial. It's a small part of life. You can read this **** for years and never get anywhere until you get out of your comfort zone and mingle. Go meet some folks. Go make some friends. I'm serious. Don't let life pass you by because you're defining yourself by the type of women or amount of women you're attracting.

I know that if you can just get out there and just have fun for one, you've taken one of the biggest steps toward being attractive to women without even trying. Go make yourself some memories. Forget women because as soon as you do, they'll start coming right to you. That's just the way it is.

What are your best memories? Do you have any memories? If not, now's the time to make them.

Life is fun! I'm serious. It's fun (but only if you decide it is). If you don't have any friends, go get some. Don't complain that you don't have any, just go. At first, you can hang around the first lonely guy just like you if you want. It's better than nothing. Then you guys will meet new people from there. Then your social circle will expand and the next thing you know... YOU'RE HAVING FUN!

I can tell you this, you'll have some bad times. There's no getting around that, but as long as you're destined for fun, those down times won't even matter.

Like I said, "Have some fun for once!"

amen to that. Im glad to see a post like this one after all the other negative, complaining, bs posts. all guys do here is complain how life suks and how they can't approach/attract women. why don't you guys read the post above a million times and GO OUT to have fun. and STOP fukin complaining for a change.
 
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