"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Have some fun for once!

Mavrick

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I'm sick of this sh!t. Reading about self esteem, confidence, tips and tricks about how to pick up women.

Have you ever thought about just having some fun for once? That should be you're main goal. Sh!t, it shouldn't even be a goal. It should just be understood. It should just be a part of your life.

Getting girls is so trivial. It's a small part of life. You can read this **** for years and never get anywhere until you get out of your comfort zone and mingle. Go meet some folks. Go make some friends. I'm serious. Don't let life pass you by because you're defining yourself by the type of women or amount of women you're attracting.

I know that if you can just get out there and just have fun for one, you've taken one of the biggest steps toward being attractive to women without even trying. Go make yourself some memories. Forget women because as soon as you do, they'll start coming right to you. That's just the way it is.

What are your best memories? Do you have any memories? If not, now's the time to make them.

Life is fun! I'm serious. It's fun (but only if you decide it is). If you don't have any friends, go get some. Don't complain that you don't have any, just go. At first, you can hang around the first lonely guy just like you if you want. It's better than nothing. Then you guys will meet new people from there. Then your social circle will expand and the next thing you know... YOU'RE HAVING FUN!

I can tell you this, you'll have some bad times. There's no getting around that, but as long as you're destined for fun, those down times won't even matter.

Like I said, "Have some fun for once!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good post. Really. That is exactly what I am going to do tonight. I wish more people would get up off the couch and participate in life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This "FUN" you are talking about. Can you elaborate this further please? I need more knowledge how to gain it.
 

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Right on.

Life isn't about attracting girls. I mean, sure it's nice, but the point of your life should not be that. It should be something else.

And life should be fun.
 

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Mavrick said:
I'm sick of this sh!t. Reading about self esteem, confidence, tips and tricks about how to pick up women.

Have you ever thought about just having some fun for once? That should be you're main goal. Sh!t, it shouldn't even be a goal. It should just be understood. It should just be a part of your life.

Getting girls is so trivial. It's a small part of life. You can read this **** for years and never get anywhere until you get out of your comfort zone and mingle. Go meet some folks. Go make some friends. I'm serious. Don't let life pass you by because you're defining yourself by the type of women or amount of women you're attracting.

I know that if you can just get out there and just have fun for one, you've taken one of the biggest steps toward being attractive to women without even trying. Go make yourself some memories. Forget women because as soon as you do, they'll start coming right to you. That's just the way it is.

What are your best memories? Do you have any memories? If not, now's the time to make them.

Life is fun! I'm serious. It's fun (but only if you decide it is). If you don't have any friends, go get some. Don't complain that you don't have any, just go. At first, you can hang around the first lonely guy just like you if you want. It's better than nothing. Then you guys will meet new people from there. Then your social circle will expand and the next thing you know... YOU'RE HAVING FUN!

I can tell you this, you'll have some bad times. There's no getting around that, but as long as you're destined for fun, those down times won't even matter.

Like I said, "Have some fun for once!"

amen to that. Im glad to see a post like this one after all the other negative, complaining, bs posts. all guys do here is complain how life suks and how they can't approach/attract women. why don't you guys read the post above a million times and GO OUT to have fun. and STOP fukin complaining for a change.
 
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