"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Have I fvcked it up?

lil hooligan

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So this is about the girl that i mentioned in a previous post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=213141

Anyway me, her and a few others were drinking ( i enjoy drinking... alot )

Most of the night is blacked out but think i was too drunk to even try and game her so think i just drank.

The problem is i ended up having a fight with someone there, police were called he fvcked off i got stitches ( no charges... i fell... ),
( haven't seen him since... yet but i will... )

But apparently she was trying to tell the other guy and me to not fight etc. and apparently she rugby tackled him away from me at one point ( i don't remember any of this ) Also she didn't get hit at any point just to point out.

We still talk as usual ( me and the girl ), but now i'm hesitating if i should still pursue her or not because of this?
( also i have black eye... doesn't bother me )


What are your thoughts?

( I want this girl guys, especially now i know she is a bit of a fighter...
guess i like the wild ones )
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lil hooligan

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well that went off topic quick, but any advice etc guys?
 

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let the dust settle and resume.

acting like a douche isn't usually the best way to attract girls unless she's a bit of a douche herself. if she's a douche you should still be alright. if she's a girl with class you might have some work to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lil hooligan

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I wasn't acting like a douche, it was a fight over a personal issue that i feel extremely passionate about, she isn't a douche either but she doesn't take no sh!t either ( guess she knew that i was right ), when i said i like a fighter i meant in spirit not it actual punch ups.

If you haven't read the other link then background info is she has a bf but relationship is on the rocks, i need a good boyfriend destroyer etc but will leave it a bit... as you say "let the dust settle"

Any other tips from anyone or anyone had to deal with a situation like this?
 
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