Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Have I fvcked it up?

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So this is about the girl that i mentioned in a previous post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=213141

Anyway me, her and a few others were drinking ( i enjoy drinking... alot )

Most of the night is blacked out but think i was too drunk to even try and game her so think i just drank.

The problem is i ended up having a fight with someone there, police were called he fvcked off i got stitches ( no charges... i fell... ),
( haven't seen him since... yet but i will... )

But apparently she was trying to tell the other guy and me to not fight etc. and apparently she rugby tackled him away from me at one point ( i don't remember any of this ) Also she didn't get hit at any point just to point out.

We still talk as usual ( me and the girl ), but now i'm hesitating if i should still pursue her or not because of this?
( also i have black eye... doesn't bother me )


What are your thoughts?

( I want this girl guys, especially now i know she is a bit of a fighter...
guess i like the wild ones )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well that went off topic quick, but any advice etc guys?
 
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let the dust settle and resume.

acting like a douche isn't usually the best way to attract girls unless she's a bit of a douche herself. if she's a douche you should still be alright. if she's a girl with class you might have some work to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wasn't acting like a douche, it was a fight over a personal issue that i feel extremely passionate about, she isn't a douche either but she doesn't take no sh!t either ( guess she knew that i was right ), when i said i like a fighter i meant in spirit not it actual punch ups.

If you haven't read the other link then background info is she has a bf but relationship is on the rocks, i need a good boyfriend destroyer etc but will leave it a bit... as you say "let the dust settle"

Any other tips from anyone or anyone had to deal with a situation like this?
 
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