"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have I fvcked it up?

lil hooligan

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So this is about the girl that i mentioned in a previous post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=213141

Anyway me, her and a few others were drinking ( i enjoy drinking... alot )

Most of the night is blacked out but think i was too drunk to even try and game her so think i just drank.

The problem is i ended up having a fight with someone there, police were called he fvcked off i got stitches ( no charges... i fell... ),
( haven't seen him since... yet but i will... )

But apparently she was trying to tell the other guy and me to not fight etc. and apparently she rugby tackled him away from me at one point ( i don't remember any of this ) Also she didn't get hit at any point just to point out.

We still talk as usual ( me and the girl ), but now i'm hesitating if i should still pursue her or not because of this?
( also i have black eye... doesn't bother me )


What are your thoughts?

( I want this girl guys, especially now i know she is a bit of a fighter...
guess i like the wild ones )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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See my sig.
 

lil hooligan

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well that went off topic quick, but any advice etc guys?
 

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let the dust settle and resume.

acting like a douche isn't usually the best way to attract girls unless she's a bit of a douche herself. if she's a douche you should still be alright. if she's a girl with class you might have some work to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lil hooligan

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I wasn't acting like a douche, it was a fight over a personal issue that i feel extremely passionate about, she isn't a douche either but she doesn't take no sh!t either ( guess she knew that i was right ), when i said i like a fighter i meant in spirit not it actual punch ups.

If you haven't read the other link then background info is she has a bf but relationship is on the rocks, i need a good boyfriend destroyer etc but will leave it a bit... as you say "let the dust settle"

Any other tips from anyone or anyone had to deal with a situation like this?
 
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