"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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have i blow my chances?

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there's this girl that im really interested with...

at first i was really nervous looking at her...

then i go to sosuave.com and learn the techniques of being a DJ...

then i started to stare at her confidently...and the result shes not looking back anymore...btw shes my classmate in college...

before i caught her staring at me but now...

what do you think...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you're a troll.
 
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no no no...

actually i really dont care if i she blow me...but im judst curious if i did the technique of being a DJ wrong..
 
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That's it. Goodbye sosuave.

I'll prolly check back in a couple of months after the influx of newbies and trolls has passed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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let's be more detailed here...

hehe...i was looking nervously at her in distance...i wasn't nervously looking at her while talking...if all of you guys are picturing that...

i also caught her looking at me...at the distance...

so i consulted this site and one of the article said have an eye contact...

so tell me whats wrong...or what happened...

is she being conscious,uncomfortable...or is she playing a game...i cant tell really...
 
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How the fvck will anyone know? We're not there...maybe she has a crick in her neck.
 
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