"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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have i blow my chances?

gherald

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there's this girl that im really interested with...

at first i was really nervous looking at her...

then i go to sosuave.com and learn the techniques of being a DJ...

then i started to stare at her confidently...and the result shes not looking back anymore...btw shes my classmate in college...

before i caught her staring at me but now...

what do you think...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think you're a troll.
 

gherald

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no no no...

actually i really dont care if i she blow me...but im judst curious if i did the technique of being a DJ wrong..
 

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That's it. Goodbye sosuave.

I'll prolly check back in a couple of months after the influx of newbies and trolls has passed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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let's be more detailed here...

hehe...i was looking nervously at her in distance...i wasn't nervously looking at her while talking...if all of you guys are picturing that...

i also caught her looking at me...at the distance...

so i consulted this site and one of the article said have an eye contact...

so tell me whats wrong...or what happened...

is she being conscious,uncomfortable...or is she playing a game...i cant tell really...
 

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How the fvck will anyone know? We're not there...maybe she has a crick in her neck.
 
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