flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Lol.. she tells another girl that she doesn’t want to get attached and you’re like “okay I’m hanging up my coat” only to go on SS and lament on it all. Fuuck
In time you will come to see words mean noooothing at all. Especially to friends. One could psychoanalyze this and spin it like: “shes stating to the other friend that she doesn’t want to get attached, to affirm a belief, but she’s already minorly attached. So now she’s denying her true self for someone in the house, in fear of it turning out bad and it is in conflict with a former belief.”
So words can offer some insight, sure, but just watch her actions when she’s around. Plus. Why is she having that specific conversation? Obviously because there’s awareness around a dynamic.
You need to just make it known. Just so you don’t create a pattern of inaction like you are now and more word salads about losing minutes of your life to a flatmate who is showing interest.
She obviously likes you to some degree. Next time she puts her hands on your shoulder or you’re close, just lean in an kiss her.. it’s not hard. You just have to commit to changing the dynamic. But you’re so in your head.
She’s not going to make the first move. But she’s opening the window. She’s waiting for a man go through it. But she’s still volleying the ball onto your side of the net..
In time you will come to see words mean noooothing at all. Especially to friends. One could psychoanalyze this and spin it like: “shes stating to the other friend that she doesn’t want to get attached, to affirm a belief, but she’s already minorly attached. So now she’s denying her true self for someone in the house, in fear of it turning out bad and it is in conflict with a former belief.”
So words can offer some insight, sure, but just watch her actions when she’s around. Plus. Why is she having that specific conversation? Obviously because there’s awareness around a dynamic.
You need to just make it known. Just so you don’t create a pattern of inaction like you are now and more word salads about losing minutes of your life to a flatmate who is showing interest.
She obviously likes you to some degree. Next time she puts her hands on your shoulder or you’re close, just lean in an kiss her.. it’s not hard. You just have to commit to changing the dynamic. But you’re so in your head.
She’s not going to make the first move. But she’s opening the window. She’s waiting for a man go through it. But she’s still volleying the ball onto your side of the net..
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