"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have I been clueless?

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Ok, I've been 100% clueless my whole life about this kind of stuff, and I want you guys to hear how this sounds.

I've just recently started to become more confident, been going out more, actually hanging out with people, and I can actually comfortably hold a conversation with a girl.

One girl I've started talking to lately, we'll call her SH. SH seems really cool. The first time we ever really hung out, she drove me home when I was hammered. Since then we've talked almost every day. I'm in one of her classes, and she sits right in front of me.

The things that make me think she likes me:
-constant eye contact (whenever we're talking there's just a constant eye contact)
-she's always pulling her desk up to mine, even when it's not group work we're doing
-a couple times, when she came into the room and I was already there, she didn't sit down and turn around, but sat in her desk backward, so she was facing directly at me

Up until a little while ago, I had no idea eye contact meant anything, so I'm kind of lost.

Sound promising?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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YES.
Always assume she does.

On top of that, you pointed out the examples required, and asked us if you're clueless.

Well sweet fvcking jesus, duh!

Ask her out somewhere, or homework, or some crap like that. You're young, you need to do these things.
 
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