"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Have I been clueless?

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Ok, I've been 100% clueless my whole life about this kind of stuff, and I want you guys to hear how this sounds.

I've just recently started to become more confident, been going out more, actually hanging out with people, and I can actually comfortably hold a conversation with a girl.

One girl I've started talking to lately, we'll call her SH. SH seems really cool. The first time we ever really hung out, she drove me home when I was hammered. Since then we've talked almost every day. I'm in one of her classes, and she sits right in front of me.

The things that make me think she likes me:
-constant eye contact (whenever we're talking there's just a constant eye contact)
-she's always pulling her desk up to mine, even when it's not group work we're doing
-a couple times, when she came into the room and I was already there, she didn't sit down and turn around, but sat in her desk backward, so she was facing directly at me

Up until a little while ago, I had no idea eye contact meant anything, so I'm kind of lost.

Sound promising?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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YES.
Always assume she does.

On top of that, you pointed out the examples required, and asked us if you're clueless.

Well sweet fvcking jesus, duh!

Ask her out somewhere, or homework, or some crap like that. You're young, you need to do these things.
 
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