"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jocca

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havent been in the dating buissness for a while now but have very high standards which may affect my outcome and im looking for a good g/f. any tips
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WaRpEd

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Yea, study the material on this site. Trust me you'll have success if you stick with it. :) But remember, its going to take some work to get a "good g/f" as most women are crazy.
 

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jocca said:
havent been in the dating buissness for a while now but have very high standards which may affect my outcome and im looking for a good g/f. any tips
Well done and do not drop your standards:up: .
Groom yourself; get clothes that look good on YOU, drug free sports, eat well, in order for YOU to be in a position to choose, as desire works both ways.
 

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see thats the thing i train 6 days a week atleast so physical fitness is definetly notan issue for me and im very healthy and happy with the way i dress just seems to me struggling to find anyone to pursue at the moment. also my friends keep telling me to drop my standards which i have sworn to never do
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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