Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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jocca

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havent been in the dating buissness for a while now but have very high standards which may affect my outcome and im looking for a good g/f. any tips
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yea, study the material on this site. Trust me you'll have success if you stick with it. :) But remember, its going to take some work to get a "good g/f" as most women are crazy.
 

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jocca said:
havent been in the dating buissness for a while now but have very high standards which may affect my outcome and im looking for a good g/f. any tips
Well done and do not drop your standards:up: .
Groom yourself; get clothes that look good on YOU, drug free sports, eat well, in order for YOU to be in a position to choose, as desire works both ways.
 

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see thats the thing i train 6 days a week atleast so physical fitness is definetly notan issue for me and im very healthy and happy with the way i dress just seems to me struggling to find anyone to pursue at the moment. also my friends keep telling me to drop my standards which i have sworn to never do
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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