“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Have Asian women finally passed white women in the totem pole?

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I just heard an earful from my ex asking me why guys are going for Asian women now lol. I would say that your standard sorority skinny swiftie blonde l American girl is still on top, but Asian women are now ahead of red heads and brunettes. What is actually holding them up the most are non-white guys that put American white women on a pedestal IMHO. It is hard for me to explain, but every time I see a bad Asian girl in public, I just have to stop and be like gawd dayumm.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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In the USA market, White women are going to be more heavily pursued by men than women with East Asian ancestry.

The typical White male in the USA is more attracted to White women than women with East Asian ancestry.

There are more White males interested in East Asian women, both in East Asia and Asian-Americans.

There are also plenty of non-White males chasing White women in the USA as you acknowledge.
 

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There are more White males interested in East Asian women, both in East Asia and Asian-Americans.

There are also plenty of non-White males chasing White women in the USA as you acknowledge.
This is where I think the leverage for white women prevails. Most nonwhite men aren't interested in East Asian women and will prefer white women or Latinas if they dated interracially.
 

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In my opinion, this is a regional argument or state-based argument or just a general opinion argument.
White women have been the beauty standard since who knows? However, I see that changing within the next 30 years or so.

^^This is a decade old but it shows that on this particular dating app Asian women were the most desired women

Asian women have been killing it low-key in some parts of the Midwest for the last 7 years
They tend to be less fat, hot, and some are feminine. I also noticed Asian and latina women tend to be more preferred in the bay area for example.

I think a hot Asian woman has more choices than a hot white woman but this isn't something I can prove with statistical evidence
A hot Asian woman in the Midwest is considered "exotic" because there just aren't a lot of them. But a hot blonde white women are a dime a dozen in the Midwest I noticed a lot of men not just white men but men of other races pursue hot Asian women here relentlessly because of this "exotic" factor.

I don't think Asian women collectively have surpassed white women. However, I do think asian women defitnely have become hotter in the last decade in America. I also think that a hot Asian woman has just as many options if not more dating-wise than a hot white woman.
 

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Not sure if it is related, but someone told me that before a men gets married they have to **** an Asian woman. I spoke to someone and they said the experience was disappointing.
 

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Not sure if it is related, but someone told me that before a men gets married they have to **** an Asian woman. I spoke to someone and they said the experience was disappointing.
White women will always win in that category. Tbh, the most disappointing I’ve had were Latinas.
 

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Not sure if it is related, but someone told me that before a men gets married they have to **** an Asian woman. I spoke to someone and they said the experience was disappointing.
There's a lot of shaming built into their culture.. It is a repressed group of people.
 

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In The US, Asian and Hispanic women aren't nearly as likely to Go Woke as single White women with university degrees(particularly in the humanities)are... As such, they(Asian and Hispanic women)'ve seen their stock increase, while that of Anglo gals(the occasional Sydney Sweeney aside)has plummeted over the past decade
 

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I’m dating an Asian girl (Vietnamese).

Very feminine, attractive, submissive, easy to get along with, slim, takes care of her appearance (she is only 55kg and looks 10 years younger than her age of 49), into lingerie, exploring sexual boundaries etc. Only slept with two other guys in her life besides me, one of them was her ex-husband of 20 years (she married at 18).

While only a sample size of 1 it’s a welcome change from Western women I have previously dated.

There are cultural differences though (food choices, importance of family ties as Asian mothers can treat their daughters like they are 10 years old and try to run their life) which you need to be aware of.
 

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In The US, Asian and Hispanic women aren't nearly as likely to Go Woke as single White women with university degrees(particularly in the humanities)are... As such, they(Asian and Hispanic women)'ve seen their stock increase, while that of Anglo gals(the occasional Sydney Sweeney aside)has plummeted over the past decade
For those reasons a lot of white US women are more more masculine, bytchy, feminist, racist, unhealthy, talk in vocal fry, don't cook/clean, blame their periods for bad behavior, and take anti depressants. Someone was going to fill the void so it's obviously going to be women from more traditional cultures who work hard and respect themselves and men. Obviously there are exceptions. But most US men are cucked so they will settle for a bottom-barrel angry white chick.

The typical American blonde is only deified because of Hollywood.
 

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White women will allways be the gold beauty standard, whatever personal preferences some people develop.

While i can be attracted to all colours of women and wrap my head around being in a relationship with them, it might be not as easy to imagine my sons looking like arabs or little vietcong.

As Muhammad Ali put it: "men want their kids to look like themselves".
 
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For those reasons a lot of white US women are more more masculine, bytchy, feminist, racist, unhealthy, talk in vocal fry, don't cook/clean, blame their periods for bad behavior, and take anti depressants. Someone was going to fill the void so it's obviously going to be women from more traditional cultures who work hard and respect themselves and men. Obviously there are exceptions. But most US men are cucked so they will settle for a bottom-barrel angry white chick.

The typical American blonde is only deified because of Hollywood.
Actually, Black American(by which I mean women from The Carribean also)women remain the most mannish chicks in the nation. A large percentage of White women just personify everything derided here
They're not bull dykish, so much as they are preachy and easily offended

What you say regarding "traditional cultures" brings us back to a conversation we had earlier, on a seperate thread https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ike-closet-lessies.282041/page-2#post-3116199 "Wokeness" hasn't contaminated every demographic equally

And again, the rise of Sydney Sweeney(plus her refusal to back down in the face of being accused of "pandering to The Male Gaze")does seem to indicate that PC Culture's strangle hold on our social atmosphere is loosening, even if only in a minute fashion
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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White women will allways be the gold beauty standard, whatever personal preferences some people develop.

While i can be attracted to all colours of women and wrap my head around being in a relationship with them, it might be not as easy to imagine my sons looking like arabs or little vietcong.

As Muhammad Ali put it: "men want their kids to look like themselves".
I’ve always wanted beautiful mixed children that reflect my vibrant non NPC personality :p
 

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I don't have a "type" so to speak. If they look good they look good. I don't care if they are yellow, brown, purple, red, black, blue, white, green, etc
You have to have a particular type that just gets you though? For me, it is any girl with wavy curly hair and glasses, but anything else is fine like you said.
 

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You have to have a particular type that just gets you though? For me, it is any girl with wavy curly hair and glasses, but anything else is fine like you said.
I am partial to brunettes and redheads...I like long, straight hair...glasses are a turn on...
 

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White women will always win in that category. Tbh, the most disappointing I’ve had were Latinas.
I assume you live in the U.S. Im not sure what kind of Latinas you have had. You can find hot natural blonds and natural redheads with very white skin in San Pedro Garza Garcia. They possibly have a bank account comparable to @BeExcellent
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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