Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
this linked in site is becoming next facebook for attention seeking
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Have any of you Pulled a chick from Linkedin site
- Thread starter Maximummax
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
Matter of fact, yes.Maximummax said:
It's nice to be able to see a resume before you move in
I use it only for business, but there was this woman that I worked with and she left the company. After a few months, I contacted her.
Regarding the similarity, now that you mention it, there are quite a few similarities. I recently got a notification because one of my business contacts got a "like" on his photograph.
WTF? That goes out to hundreds of your contacts potentially.
SH
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
lets see what other guys say?
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
bump
I haven't, but have often thought of it. Would be interested to hear from anyone who has worked LI socially. One advantage would be that you can salvage business relationships out of it..."don't wanna f me? well then buy a gross of my widgets, least you can do!" LOL.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.