Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
this linked in site is becoming next facebook for attention seeking
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Have any of you Pulled a chick from Linkedin site
- Thread starter Maximummax
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
Matter of fact, yes.Maximummax said:
It's nice to be able to see a resume before you move in
I use it only for business, but there was this woman that I worked with and she left the company. After a few months, I contacted her.
Regarding the similarity, now that you mention it, there are quite a few similarities. I recently got a notification because one of my business contacts got a "like" on his photograph.
WTF? That goes out to hundreds of your contacts potentially.
SH
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
lets see what other guys say?
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
bump
I haven't, but have often thought of it. Would be interested to hear from anyone who has worked LI socially. One advantage would be that you can salvage business relationships out of it..."don't wanna f me? well then buy a gross of my widgets, least you can do!" LOL.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.