Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
this linked in site is becoming next facebook for attention seeking
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Have any of you Pulled a chick from Linkedin site
- Thread starter Maximummax
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
Matter of fact, yes.Maximummax said:
It's nice to be able to see a resume before you move in
I use it only for business, but there was this woman that I worked with and she left the company. After a few months, I contacted her.
Regarding the similarity, now that you mention it, there are quite a few similarities. I recently got a notification because one of my business contacts got a "like" on his photograph.
WTF? That goes out to hundreds of your contacts potentially.
SH
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
lets see what other guys say?
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
bump
I haven't, but have often thought of it. Would be interested to hear from anyone who has worked LI socially. One advantage would be that you can salvage business relationships out of it..."don't wanna f me? well then buy a gross of my widgets, least you can do!" LOL.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.