Have any of you ever felt this way?

[weddingcrasher]

I dont know what it is but the past couple of days I've just been feeling diferent. I have a gf and were doin fine and everything seems so great but I feel as if im not good enough for her. I havnt done anything bad, or would I ever but I just have this feeling like she could do so much better. She will always compliment me on my looks but when im at home or somethin I think I look horrible, i want to like change my hair style or do something different but know I would regret it. I duno, I just feel weird and feel like im not good enough for her, in the looks category, even tho she compliments me and obviously there is some attraction to her, after a year i mean comon, i duno what it is, i just feel like shes the beauty and im the beast. Anyone ever felt this way before?

 

[Nemonin]

You meen she's the beast. lol. Don't think so lowly of yourself. If you consider yourself ugly, and you are...then what are you going to do. You can atleast make the best of it. You have a hot chick who thinks your hot...*insert problem here please*

 

[strams4ever]

So your girlfriend is too hot? dump her for a fat chick....

 

[Javelin44]

yea, get an uglier gf

 

[MetalFortress]

Remember: the guy she fell in love with is the guy who you look like now. The guy you want to become, or look like, might not even be attractive to her. Ever considered that?

 

[gravstar]

You have 2 options.

You can either keep bashing yourself and just admit your the luckiest guy in the world.
Or you can grab your balls and take her word that you look good and walk around like you know it.

 

[brenbaus]

all I can say is W-T-F is wrong with you dude, if you think you are ugly, we dont really care, your gf is hot, so if you are happy with her then dont f*** up!

 

[08aisaac]

Hey dude this just proves that looks have nothing to do with it. As long as you improve what you can, then there is nothing to worry about.

 

[arutha]

Maybe it is simply your opinion of yourself and not others? You always judge yourself the harshest because you know your own body so you know every slight flaw.

I used to think I was pretty ugly, but so many girls have told me I'm hot now and interact with me that I kinda believe it. As gravstar said, accept it and believe it.

 

[djaus111000]

just have confidence in yourself and know that she should be worrying if she deserves you,, not the other way around

 

[Best friends? NAY]

What does it matter if you're ugly. Theirs obviously something attracting her. As long as you don't express these feelings in ANY way when your around her you'll be fine. Remeber the dating game is never equal, you're just probaly not used to it being unequal in your favor.
And if your personality kicks major ass then your looks probaly don't matter much to her anyways.