"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have any of you ever felt this way?

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weddingcrasher

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I dont know what it is but the past couple of days I've just been feeling diferent. I have a gf and were doin fine and everything seems so great but I feel as if im not good enough for her. I havnt done anything bad, or would I ever but I just have this feeling like she could do so much better. She will always compliment me on my looks but when im at home or somethin I think I look horrible, i want to like change my hair style or do something different but know I would regret it. I duno, I just feel weird and feel like im not good enough for her, in the looks category, even tho she compliments me and obviously there is some attraction to her, after a year i mean comon, i duno what it is, i just feel like shes the beauty and im the beast. Anyone ever felt this way before?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nemonin

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You meen she's the beast. lol. Don't think so lowly of yourself. If you consider yourself ugly, and you are...then what are you going to do. You can atleast make the best of it. You have a hot chick who thinks your hot...*insert problem here please*
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You have 2 options.

You can either keep bashing yourself and just admit your the luckiest guy in the world.
Or you can grab your balls and take her word that you look good and walk around like you know it.
 
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all I can say is W-T-F is wrong with you dude, if you think you are ugly, we dont really care, your gf is hot, so if you are happy with her then dont f*** up!
 
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Hey dude this just proves that looks have nothing to do with it. As long as you improve what you can, then there is nothing to worry about.
 
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arutha

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Maybe it is simply your opinion of yourself and not others? You always judge yourself the harshest because you know your own body so you know every slight flaw.

I used to think I was pretty ugly, but so many girls have told me I'm hot now and interact with me that I kinda believe it. As gravstar said, accept it and believe it.
 
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just have confidence in yourself and know that she should be worrying if she deserves you,, not the other way around
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best friends? NAY

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What does it matter if you're ugly. Theirs obviously something attracting her. As long as you don't express these feelings in ANY way when your around her you'll be fine. Remeber the dating game is never equal, you're just probaly not used to it being unequal in your favor.
And if your personality kicks major ass then your looks probaly don't matter much to her anyways.
 
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