“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Have all of your plates broke in a short amount of time?

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Maybe its because I'm studying and working at the same time so I don't have much time available

But in the course of two weeks 3 of my 5 plates disappeared, and two weeks later the remaining two broke, one dropped by me because she was getting too flaky the other one simply left without explanation.

Did you had any experience like this? Why did you think it happened?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yes. That seems to be the way it goes … for reasons unknown.
It’s almost like they smell the others leaving.. and then eject themselves. Like rats from a sinking ship.

It’s my pet theory women can actually smell the pu$$y off me (or lack thereof). For real.
 

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Did you had any experience like this? Why did you think it happened?
Yeah, if you're dating/boning/pursuing multiple gals at once, what you describe is fairly typical. Most of 'em don't stick
 

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Yes. That seems to be the way it goes … for reasons unknown.
It’s almost like they smell the others leaving.. and then eject themselves. Like rats from a sinking ship.

It’s my pet theory women can actually smell the pu$$y off me (or lack thereof). For real.
My story is the exact opposite tho; EVERY womam I meet tries to claim me. She'll study my patterns and makes sure she notices even the most subtle changes.

I find.it extremely tiring to deal with multiple women at once..they all want attention, activities, d1ck, advice, drama, pleasure ect...

Perhaps OP actually goes through the same. BECAUSE he is juggling too many women, none of them feels like they are special and thus they leave...
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Take it as a sign that you got better things to do than waste your life force. Look at me for example, where Im at I’ve never had so much opportunity in my life just to indulge. But Id rather focus on getting my book done, work on my business ventures and concentrate on my health and overall vibe. It’s so hard to enjoy peace of mind when you’re not sexually transmuting in higher aspirations, enjoy that solitude as much as you can and take it as a sign that you got better things to do.
 

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Juggling plates for any length of time is a logistical challenge and sucks up a lot of your time, money and energy. It’s fun in the short term but unsustainable in the long term, additionally as most women will push for exclusivity at some point.

Drowning in p*ssy is great when you are young, your T levels are at their highest, you don’t have much stress in your life (full time job, paying off a mortgage, kids etc.), you have lots of free time and you are willing to put up with all sorts of bullsh*t and drama from women just to get laid.

That changes as you get older. At least for me.
 

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The only time I had ever had multiple plates was in Ukraine over 2 decades ago. :mad:
 

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They all have expirations...
Yep. Even our wives eventually

-Keel over from Stage IV breast cancer,

-Run off to San Francisco with some other broad


-Become an irredeemable nuiscance, require excision via either divorce or enlisting the services of the nearest Richard Kuklinski

Strange that we harbor lofty expectations of chicks we have far more casual arrangements with
 

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Yep. Even our wives eventually

-Keel over from Stage IV breast cancer,

-Run off to San Francisco with some other broad


-Become an irredeemable nuiscance, require excision via either divorce or enlisting the services of the nearest Richard Kuklinski

Strange that we harbor lofty expectations of chicks we have far more casual arrangements with
A divorce and many women later have reinforced my belief that a man should enjoy them while they last and realize there can be many others after her that you can enjoy as well.
 

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Are you talking about plates you were actually sleeping with, or just girls in the talking stage?

From my experience, seduction is a game of attention; of slowly filling the other person’s mind with your presence. Distance and inattention create the opposite effect. In the beginning you build mystery, tension, and excitement, but once that drops, people naturally lose interest. If you get busy with work and school and stop putting in the same energy, routine creeps in, the excitement fades, and the plates break. It’s usually just a lack of consistent effort.
 

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When it rains it pours.

for some reason in life when things happen they often happen all at once. For better and worse.

it could be a domino effect where the first thing that happens causes a spiral. In video games they call it being tilted, where you lose one game and immediately go into the next game upset and stressed so you lose again and go into the next game more upset and more stressed.
 

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@devilkingx2 basically said what I was going to.

It is my experience that a situation with a plate can change rapidly. So the scenario described by OP isn't really that surprising, except I have never attempted to have five plates at once. My max has been three, and even that was a little too much IMO given my family and profession. Two is generally the sweet spot for me -- and preferably two women who will never cross paths. So from that perspective, I am not sure how you would have that much time to spread out among five different women. Sounds exhausting.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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