"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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have a rub before a date.

Tails

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some people, like myself, have a high sex drive. i was just wondering if many guys have a rub session before they go out on a date. cause i have a date tomorrow night and i am thinking about having a rub before i go see her. i mean, at least i won't be getting those annoying boners so often and i'll be able to concentrate more. what do you guys think?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's two schools of thought on this.

The 'Something about Mary' school says you should rub one out before a date because it will make you less tense, and because you're not thinking about sex you will appear less needy.

The other school says that w8nking kills your sex drive and that you need that 'edge' to successfully go after the woman.

I don't think it makes much difference. Unless you have a very low sex drive, having a w*nk before a date is not going to make any difference to your sex drive or your erections.
 
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