"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have a problem por practicing opening

fonsi141

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I am reading Magic Bullets. Have practiced it with people I know. But the dillema here is that it says that i should not practice opening in my social circle because it will affect my reputation. All the parties that are made in highschool most people at least know who is each other. So my question is: Should i practice opening in parties even though there are people that might know who i am? Any other options ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I personally would not but rather simply attempt to develop your on the spot social skills in concern to social situations. If you starting behaving scripted and saying similar stuff to everyone it will appear a little creepy.
 

apocolipto

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Damn, some people on this forum actually have no idea about how the mystery method works.
 

fonsi141

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apocolipto said:
Damn, some people on this forum actually have no idea about how the mystery method works.
Could you give me any tips ?
 

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This is completely irrelevant. Think about it this way: In thelate 1800's Heroin was synthesised and marketed as a remedy for morphine addiction. Think about this, opiate addicts where being given a narcotic twice as potent to curb their addiction. But they didn't know that back then, so millions of people treated their addictions, coughs and upset stomachs with one of the most addictive substances known to man. It was a terrible solution to the man made problem of morphine addiction.

In this context, the man made problem is fear of rejection. The fallacious solution is routine based method. It feels like a solution, it even gives the quick fix appearance of working. But after years of working on it where can you expect to be? As good as Style? He had negligible success in terms of volume, effort put in and time spent trying to get laid. Umberto Billo on the other hand is a hotel porter who has slept with thousands of women while working a 12 hour day and looking like a paedophile Mario Bro.

What I'm saying is it feels like it works because girls respond, you get addicted to their validation when in reality you're barely any closer to sleeping with them or any other women. Go watch the Blueprint or read up on natural game from RSD. They have concepts which apply at a deeper level and actually make you a man women want, not some D&D nerd memorising lines like a script. Besides, more than half of getting laid is just being sincere. How authentic can you be reciting routines from some keyboard jockey?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know, that's the situation that you have to work with, then that's what you got to work with. There are many ways to getting girls and if this what you're working on then how about approaching it like this.......

The guys are right when they say that it would be a little creepy to just bust out a canned opener on your friends but instead, wait for the dead moments, when it's just quiet and no one's saying anything. Say "Hey, this is gonna be compeletely random, I know but you know what I heard/saw/was thinking about the other day?" Then proceed to say the opener.

Then if it's interesting enough, then it should get everyone talking. If not, don't use it again. lol. But if you only have your friends to practice on and you got the ambition to want to practice it, try bring it up like I mentioned.
 
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