I am reading Magic Bullets. Have practiced it with people I know. But the dillema here is that it says that i should not practice opening in my social circle because it will affect my reputation. All the parties that are made in highschool most people at least know who is each other. So my question is: Should i practice opening in parties even though there are people that might know who i am? Any other options ?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Have a problem por practicing opening
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I personally would not but rather simply attempt to develop your on the spot social skills in concern to social situations. If you starting behaving scripted and saying similar stuff to everyone it will appear a little creepy.
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Damn, some people on this forum actually have no idea about how the mystery method works.
Could you give me any tips ?apocolipto said:Damn, some people on this forum actually have no idea about how the mystery method works.
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This is completely irrelevant. Think about it this way: In thelate 1800's Heroin was synthesised and marketed as a remedy for morphine addiction. Think about this, opiate addicts where being given a narcotic twice as potent to curb their addiction. But they didn't know that back then, so millions of people treated their addictions, coughs and upset stomachs with one of the most addictive substances known to man. It was a terrible solution to the man made problem of morphine addiction.
In this context, the man made problem is fear of rejection. The fallacious solution is routine based method. It feels like a solution, it even gives the quick fix appearance of working. But after years of working on it where can you expect to be? As good as Style? He had negligible success in terms of volume, effort put in and time spent trying to get laid. Umberto Billo on the other hand is a hotel porter who has slept with thousands of women while working a 12 hour day and looking like a paedophile Mario Bro.
What I'm saying is it feels like it works because girls respond, you get addicted to their validation when in reality you're barely any closer to sleeping with them or any other women. Go watch the Blueprint or read up on natural game from RSD. They have concepts which apply at a deeper level and actually make you a man women want, not some D&D nerd memorising lines like a script. Besides, more than half of getting laid is just being sincere. How authentic can you be reciting routines from some keyboard jockey?
In this context, the man made problem is fear of rejection. The fallacious solution is routine based method. It feels like a solution, it even gives the quick fix appearance of working. But after years of working on it where can you expect to be? As good as Style? He had negligible success in terms of volume, effort put in and time spent trying to get laid. Umberto Billo on the other hand is a hotel porter who has slept with thousands of women while working a 12 hour day and looking like a paedophile Mario Bro.
What I'm saying is it feels like it works because girls respond, you get addicted to their validation when in reality you're barely any closer to sleeping with them or any other women. Go watch the Blueprint or read up on natural game from RSD. They have concepts which apply at a deeper level and actually make you a man women want, not some D&D nerd memorising lines like a script. Besides, more than half of getting laid is just being sincere. How authentic can you be reciting routines from some keyboard jockey?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You know, that's the situation that you have to work with, then that's what you got to work with. There are many ways to getting girls and if this what you're working on then how about approaching it like this.......
The guys are right when they say that it would be a little creepy to just bust out a canned opener on your friends but instead, wait for the dead moments, when it's just quiet and no one's saying anything. Say "Hey, this is gonna be compeletely random, I know but you know what I heard/saw/was thinking about the other day?" Then proceed to say the opener.
Then if it's interesting enough, then it should get everyone talking. If not, don't use it again. lol. But if you only have your friends to practice on and you got the ambition to want to practice it, try bring it up like I mentioned.
The guys are right when they say that it would be a little creepy to just bust out a canned opener on your friends but instead, wait for the dead moments, when it's just quiet and no one's saying anything. Say "Hey, this is gonna be compeletely random, I know but you know what I heard/saw/was thinking about the other day?" Then proceed to say the opener.
Then if it's interesting enough, then it should get everyone talking. If not, don't use it again. lol. But if you only have your friends to practice on and you got the ambition to want to practice it, try bring it up like I mentioned.