"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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have a problem, need to kno now!! PLEASE HELP

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alrite, i like this chick and she likes me.......we've hung out a couple times and she was like, we can either go out now and go do something and make it official.....so we did and she was like i wanna make it official on valentines day and im like ok sure w/e,...........how should i ask her out? i wanna say like, "so how about that date" or just the simple dumb one, "so will u go out with me?" idn please help me out, i really like her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol, im not freaking out, its just pissing me off cuz ive been thinking bout it for a longtime, and each time i think of something new, im like nah, thats retarded.
 

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this is not a step by step guide into her pants [/B]


im not trying to her into her pants, im just saying idn how i should ask her out
 

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I dont know, it still sounds like your worrying about this too much. Keep in mind that its not the words you use, but the way in which you use them. A little creativity can make this a bit easier for ya.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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