"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have A Plan DJs

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I took my FB out the a couple weeks back, and during the pillowtalk a few nights later, she said "it was so sexy how you just told me where we were going and what we were doing. Most guys never take charge like that. I wanted to get on you from the moment you said that."

I said to her "we are going to XXXX at XXXX. I will pick you up at XXXX. Dress nice." Now, she gave me **** when I actually said this to her that day, saying "Oh really, what makes you think I would like that?" I didn't back down from the **** test, and said, "Well, you will, and that is what I am doing tonight, and we are going to have a good time."

I learned a lesson about the power of assertiveness on women. Take heed, DJs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That is one of the best convo's i've ever read. Doling out the roles, laying down the law, is so much fun. Second you say it she'll give you that look of surprise or excitement, and try to give you shyt for it, but you know shes trying to overpower you, lol. love that stuff. awesome, man.
 
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