"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have a got the right idea?

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A little txt message trail...

her: Hey, last day in your job! Enjoy your last day with the guys :-D xx

me: Hey thanks, its been a nice chilled out day! did you have a good time last night?

her: Yes, went to 2 clubs. Came back not long ago. Not sure if I can do another night! Do come and give me a massage xx

me: You poor thing, all that partying, must be a tough life! As for a massage, they happen to be my speciality, and they aint free ya know!

her: Hmm, I think I deserve a free trial and we will discuss further if you are so good ;-) xx

me: I'll have to check my schedule, I'll let you know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hehe, cool. Think I am getting the hang of it, can't believe I didn't realise this **** earlier. Ah well, onwards and upwards.
 
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"Real men" don't give massages, we get them!! You have it backwards - women should serve us.

Is this (you being her personal massager) the only option for inroads to further play? Some guys choose to play the servant role in exchange for sex - I personally advise against it.
 

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sounds good to me
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing said:
"Real men" don't give massages, we get them!! You have it backwards - women should serve us.

Is this (you being her personal massager) the only option for inroads to further play? Some guys choose to play the servant role in exchange for sex - I personally advise against it.
You never give a woman a massage? It's not in exchange for sex, I know she is gagging for it ;)
 
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I caress a woman's body where I choose to - if you know what I mean. "No", to formal massages.

The "massage" thing is a new phenomenon with the younger boy/girl generation - the roles have been reversed and the men have become and are playing the unnatural role of being the nurturers and soothers.

It is us men who need to be calmed and tamed and our muscles relieved after a hard day's work!!

When a man touches the female body it is a prelude to arousal and NOT for the purpose of her pleasure!! If my hands are all over her body it sure in the hell isn't for the purpose of a massage!!

Do a test - ask her to give YOU a massage and see what her response is. Then when you reciprocate "go for the gold" - and when she says "what are you doing?" "don't massage me there" - you tell her "It is foreign for a man to touch a woman's body for any other reason then for his arousal". If she says "stop", then just leave and say "thanks for the massage sweety".
 
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