"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A little txt message trail...

her: Hey, last day in your job! Enjoy your last day with the guys :-D xx

me: Hey thanks, its been a nice chilled out day! did you have a good time last night?

her: Yes, went to 2 clubs. Came back not long ago. Not sure if I can do another night! Do come and give me a massage xx

me: You poor thing, all that partying, must be a tough life! As for a massage, they happen to be my speciality, and they aint free ya know!

her: Hmm, I think I deserve a free trial and we will discuss further if you are so good ;-) xx

me: I'll have to check my schedule, I'll let you know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hehe, cool. Think I am getting the hang of it, can't believe I didn't realise this **** earlier. Ah well, onwards and upwards.
 
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"Real men" don't give massages, we get them!! You have it backwards - women should serve us.

Is this (you being her personal massager) the only option for inroads to further play? Some guys choose to play the servant role in exchange for sex - I personally advise against it.
 
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sounds good to me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Last Man Standing said:
"Real men" don't give massages, we get them!! You have it backwards - women should serve us.

Is this (you being her personal massager) the only option for inroads to further play? Some guys choose to play the servant role in exchange for sex - I personally advise against it.
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You never give a woman a massage? It's not in exchange for sex, I know she is gagging for it ;)
 
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I caress a woman's body where I choose to - if you know what I mean. "No", to formal massages.

The "massage" thing is a new phenomenon with the younger boy/girl generation - the roles have been reversed and the men have become and are playing the unnatural role of being the nurturers and soothers.

It is us men who need to be calmed and tamed and our muscles relieved after a hard day's work!!

When a man touches the female body it is a prelude to arousal and NOT for the purpose of her pleasure!! If my hands are all over her body it sure in the hell isn't for the purpose of a massage!!

Do a test - ask her to give YOU a massage and see what her response is. Then when you reciprocate "go for the gold" - and when she says "what are you doing?" "don't massage me there" - you tell her "It is foreign for a man to touch a woman's body for any other reason then for his arousal". If she says "stop", then just leave and say "thanks for the massage sweety".
 
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