"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have a girls mom set us up?

dk1990S111

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Have a lady I do business with that has a cute daughter she has shown me pictures of and said we are each others type. She has offered a few times to set us up but I feel like that'd be too awkward. But I do know she is VERY close with her mom so that's one thing to consider, her moms opinion is really important to her.

On the other hand I can wait until I meet her in person myself and see if there's chemistry then ask her out then. Not sure when that'll happen though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Soooo.

Option A : Go for it if she suggests it.
Option B : Avoid it all together, not worth damaging the business connection if something goes wrong.
 

dk1990S111

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Soooo.

Option A : Go for it if she suggests it.
Option B : Avoid it all together, not worth damaging the business connection if something goes wrong.
Not worried about the business part of it at all, she needs me much more than I need her
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dk1990S111

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Of course you should, you already passed one of the top roadblocks. She knows what her daughter likes.
Lucky for me I have always gotten along really well with my LTRs parents, my last exs parents talk to me more than they do her now o_O
 

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Like mother, like daughter.

Go for it.

Just take a careful look at her mother's personality too
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why not ?.... You never know...

Let us know how it goes...
 
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