"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Have a girls mom set us up?

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Have a lady I do business with that has a cute daughter she has shown me pictures of and said we are each others type. She has offered a few times to set us up but I feel like that'd be too awkward. But I do know she is VERY close with her mom so that's one thing to consider, her moms opinion is really important to her.

On the other hand I can wait until I meet her in person myself and see if there's chemistry then ask her out then. Not sure when that'll happen though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Soooo.

Option A : Go for it if she suggests it.
Option B : Avoid it all together, not worth damaging the business connection if something goes wrong.
 

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Soooo.

Option A : Go for it if she suggests it.
Option B : Avoid it all together, not worth damaging the business connection if something goes wrong.
Not worried about the business part of it at all, she needs me much more than I need her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Of course you should, you already passed one of the top roadblocks. She knows what her daughter likes.
Lucky for me I have always gotten along really well with my LTRs parents, my last exs parents talk to me more than they do her now o_O
 

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Like mother, like daughter.

Go for it.

Just take a careful look at her mother's personality too
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why not ?.... You never know...

Let us know how it goes...
 
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