Looking for a bit of feedback from any online masters. I get decent results, but I'm always open to suggestions.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Have a gander.
- Thread starter rhythmic
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
get rid of that stupid main profile pic, if you play those guitars, get some pics of you playing performing, ditto if you are actually a drummer and in a band.rhythmic said:
the pics are all solo, you need some group shots, pref with some decent looking women close by, arms around them etc
playing with your mam??? lose that
btw Im not an online master, however me and FB split up 4 days ago and went on pof, out tomorrow on a date
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Giving up alcohol suggest you might have a drinking problem.
Uncheck casual sex and lose the full body pic bit.
Uncheck casual sex and lose the full body pic bit.
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It is obvious to me that you're not an online master. That stupid pic of his is gold. You think girls online respond to "normal" guys? trollolo :crackup: That's why they are online, they are fvcked in the head and don't respond to normal guys. They are either looking for a guy way out of their league or they are messed in the head or both.betheman said:
If you treat online dating seriously, you will get very poor results unless you are 50+. You should use silly pictures (as long as they don't make you look ugly).
Case and point: my friend had ZERO success online until he put up gag pictures of himself online (POF). One was him with a ridiculous beer funnel shaped like a horn, the other was one with him covered in fake blood with a sadistic look on his face.
Guess what happened? He started getting unsolicited messages from girls. And that NEVER happened before he put up stupid pictures of himself.
So silly pictures,
Again, just don't make yourself look ugly.“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good point about all my pictures being solo, didn't catch that one.
Removed the sections that were a bit borderline weird... I definitely want to attract more edgy women who aren't so easily offended, but I figure there are better ways of doing that.
I find "your mother" jokes hilarious. I've no idea why.
There are youtube videos of me playing to decent crowds, which I link ladies to if they ask. I don't believe in strutting around being all "look at me, I'm in a band" on an online dating profile. Not my vibe.
And yeah - women like a fun guy. Your profile pic is the first thing they see, and if it's fun, they're going to be intrigued. Everyone has boring smiley mugshots, and you wanna stand out, surely? My results have gone up up up since I stopped using boring profile pictures, in terms of both volume and quality of interactions.
Thanks for the suggestions guys.
Removed the sections that were a bit borderline weird... I definitely want to attract more edgy women who aren't so easily offended, but I figure there are better ways of doing that.
I find "your mother" jokes hilarious. I've no idea why.
There are youtube videos of me playing to decent crowds, which I link ladies to if they ask. I don't believe in strutting around being all "look at me, I'm in a band" on an online dating profile. Not my vibe.
And yeah - women like a fun guy. Your profile pic is the first thing they see, and if it's fun, they're going to be intrigued. Everyone has boring smiley mugshots, and you wanna stand out, surely? My results have gone up up up since I stopped using boring profile pictures, in terms of both volume and quality of interactions.
Thanks for the suggestions guys.