Looking for a bit of feedback from any online masters. I get decent results, but I'm always open to suggestions.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Have a gander.
- Thread starter rhythmic
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
get rid of that stupid main profile pic, if you play those guitars, get some pics of you playing performing, ditto if you are actually a drummer and in a band.rhythmic said:
the pics are all solo, you need some group shots, pref with some decent looking women close by, arms around them etc
playing with your mam??? lose that
btw Im not an online master, however me and FB split up 4 days ago and went on pof, out tomorrow on a date
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Giving up alcohol suggest you might have a drinking problem.
Uncheck casual sex and lose the full body pic bit.
Uncheck casual sex and lose the full body pic bit.
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It is obvious to me that you're not an online master. That stupid pic of his is gold. You think girls online respond to "normal" guys? trollolo :crackup: That's why they are online, they are fvcked in the head and don't respond to normal guys. They are either looking for a guy way out of their league or they are messed in the head or both.betheman said:
If you treat online dating seriously, you will get very poor results unless you are 50+. You should use silly pictures (as long as they don't make you look ugly).
Case and point: my friend had ZERO success online until he put up gag pictures of himself online (POF). One was him with a ridiculous beer funnel shaped like a horn, the other was one with him covered in fake blood with a sadistic look on his face.
Guess what happened? He started getting unsolicited messages from girls. And that NEVER happened before he put up stupid pictures of himself.
So silly pictures,
Again, just don't make yourself look ugly."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good point about all my pictures being solo, didn't catch that one.
Removed the sections that were a bit borderline weird... I definitely want to attract more edgy women who aren't so easily offended, but I figure there are better ways of doing that.
I find "your mother" jokes hilarious. I've no idea why.
There are youtube videos of me playing to decent crowds, which I link ladies to if they ask. I don't believe in strutting around being all "look at me, I'm in a band" on an online dating profile. Not my vibe.
And yeah - women like a fun guy. Your profile pic is the first thing they see, and if it's fun, they're going to be intrigued. Everyone has boring smiley mugshots, and you wanna stand out, surely? My results have gone up up up since I stopped using boring profile pictures, in terms of both volume and quality of interactions.
Thanks for the suggestions guys.
Removed the sections that were a bit borderline weird... I definitely want to attract more edgy women who aren't so easily offended, but I figure there are better ways of doing that.
I find "your mother" jokes hilarious. I've no idea why.
There are youtube videos of me playing to decent crowds, which I link ladies to if they ask. I don't believe in strutting around being all "look at me, I'm in a band" on an online dating profile. Not my vibe.
And yeah - women like a fun guy. Your profile pic is the first thing they see, and if it's fun, they're going to be intrigued. Everyone has boring smiley mugshots, and you wanna stand out, surely? My results have gone up up up since I stopped using boring profile pictures, in terms of both volume and quality of interactions.
Thanks for the suggestions guys.