Looking for a bit of feedback from any online masters. I get decent results, but I'm always open to suggestions.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Have a gander.
- Thread starter rhythmic
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
get rid of that stupid main profile pic, if you play those guitars, get some pics of you playing performing, ditto if you are actually a drummer and in a band.rhythmic said:
the pics are all solo, you need some group shots, pref with some decent looking women close by, arms around them etc
playing with your mam??? lose that
btw Im not an online master, however me and FB split up 4 days ago and went on pof, out tomorrow on a date
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Giving up alcohol suggest you might have a drinking problem.
Uncheck casual sex and lose the full body pic bit.
Uncheck casual sex and lose the full body pic bit.
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It is obvious to me that you're not an online master. That stupid pic of his is gold. You think girls online respond to "normal" guys? trollolo :crackup: That's why they are online, they are fvcked in the head and don't respond to normal guys. They are either looking for a guy way out of their league or they are messed in the head or both.betheman said:
If you treat online dating seriously, you will get very poor results unless you are 50+. You should use silly pictures (as long as they don't make you look ugly).
Case and point: my friend had ZERO success online until he put up gag pictures of himself online (POF). One was him with a ridiculous beer funnel shaped like a horn, the other was one with him covered in fake blood with a sadistic look on his face.
Guess what happened? He started getting unsolicited messages from girls. And that NEVER happened before he put up stupid pictures of himself.
So silly pictures,
Again, just don't make yourself look ugly."I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Good point about all my pictures being solo, didn't catch that one.
Removed the sections that were a bit borderline weird... I definitely want to attract more edgy women who aren't so easily offended, but I figure there are better ways of doing that.
I find "your mother" jokes hilarious. I've no idea why.
There are youtube videos of me playing to decent crowds, which I link ladies to if they ask. I don't believe in strutting around being all "look at me, I'm in a band" on an online dating profile. Not my vibe.
And yeah - women like a fun guy. Your profile pic is the first thing they see, and if it's fun, they're going to be intrigued. Everyone has boring smiley mugshots, and you wanna stand out, surely? My results have gone up up up since I stopped using boring profile pictures, in terms of both volume and quality of interactions.
Thanks for the suggestions guys.
Removed the sections that were a bit borderline weird... I definitely want to attract more edgy women who aren't so easily offended, but I figure there are better ways of doing that.
I find "your mother" jokes hilarious. I've no idea why.
There are youtube videos of me playing to decent crowds, which I link ladies to if they ask. I don't believe in strutting around being all "look at me, I'm in a band" on an online dating profile. Not my vibe.
And yeah - women like a fun guy. Your profile pic is the first thing they see, and if it's fun, they're going to be intrigued. Everyone has boring smiley mugshots, and you wanna stand out, surely? My results have gone up up up since I stopped using boring profile pictures, in terms of both volume and quality of interactions.
Thanks for the suggestions guys.