Have a date with a popular woman on Tues

[JayAce]

So I moved on from the single mother I had been previously posting about.

Set up a date from OLD with a really popular chick from Tinder for this coming Tuesday. She looks like an 8-8.5 hb from her pics

it said we have a couple mutual friends on FB so I looked her up. 100s of likes on her pics and statuses and she has a lot of guys commenting on her pics, etc

My social circle isn't where I would like it to be, but it's still decent. I would be dumb to think it's as big as hers though (she also has pics with women friends across her FB).

Is it just my current self esteem that has feelings of uneasiness about this?

I guess I'm subconsciouly putting her on a pedestal because of this and I hate myself for it.

 

[marmel75]

Why do you care? Social status is for women to gawk over not men.

 

[mrmuscles2]

Idk about you but i never take girls like that seriously just date her for fun and move on to someone better and more down to earth, such chicks can never be trusted and therefore shouldnt be pursued for anything serious .
with that being said its obvous why you have no need to be nervous or have low self esteem, youre not gonna date her seriously so why care if she finds you the most fulfilling man in the world ? it really doesnt matter

 

[JayAce]

Update:

So this date for last night was scheduled this past Sat night (I counter offered).

We msg a couple msgs on Sunday morning and that was it.

Fast forward to yesterday. I hadn't heard from her. I know a lot of people say don't confirm (or let her confirm) the day of the date. However, there was a concert last night I was going to go to as a backup plan and I didn't want to be in limbo all day. So I sent her a msg at 3pm to see if the date was still set (for 7:30pm). She didn't reply until 6:30 and said she was wiped out, BUT counter offered for today for breakfast. I had to decline because I had work early today. (And I've never had a breakfast date from Tinder of all places for a first hang out). I didn't counter offer, but I kindly said maybe our schedules will line up in the future and we'll be able to meet.

Did I handle this correctly? I was peeved last night, but didn't show it. That would've done nothing anyways.

 

[marmel75]

Update:

So this date for last night was scheduled this past Sat night (I counter offered).

We msg a couple msgs on Sunday morning and that was it.

Fast forward to yesterday. I hadn't heard from her. I know a lot of people say don't confirm (or let her confirm) the day of the date. However, there was a concert last night I was going to go to as a backup plan and I didn't want to be in limbo all day. So I sent her a msg at 3pm to see if the date was still set (for 7:30pm). She didn't reply until 6:30 and said she was wiped out, BUT counter offered for today for breakfast. I had to decline because I had work early today. (And I've never had a breakfast date from Tinder of all places for a first hang out). I didn't counter offer, but I kindly said maybe our schedules will line up in the future and we'll be able to meet.

Did I handle this correctly? I was peeved last night, but didn't show it. That would've done nothing anyways.

Yeah there is really nothing you could have done. I'd say her interest is lukewarm at best...you certainly are not at the tope of her lost you might be the backup or the back up to the back up at this point. I'd leave her be for a while and start working on other women.

 

[derby1]

Did I handle this correctly? I was peeved last night, but didn't show it

You aint gonna get a relationship out of this chic, she will sabotage it within 6 months or make you a neurotic mess because you consider her a prize

Breakfast= "ive got about 1000 orbiters at the moment there like cans of beans on a shelf, however im always happy to make it 1001, and you never know perhaps in 6 months time when im bored well ****"

handled fine OP,, start working on yaself

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

- Her supposed popularity is not a concern of yours and it will do you no favours to acknowledge it in any way.

- You should confirm specifics of time and place of meeting a day or two in advance, then leave it to pan out as it will. Also, breakfast date is only ever for someone you just spent the night with.

- Lastly, a tinder date is neither quite as popular, nor high value as you, she, or anyone else thinks she is.

 

[JayAce]

Yeah. I also just noticed she unmatched me

no further communication was had after what I explained earlier in the thread

oh well

 

[fanatic22]

A good female friend averages 200-300 likes on her pics and she’s very chill and down to earth. Not worried about her likes at all, just has had tons of friends over the years and joining a sorority is like +100 likes on all your pics.