"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have a date tonight with a 7.Wish me luck

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yeah that's right she's living very far from where i live and she's coming tonight on purpous to see me. this is my first date since i broke up with my ex, and it's a good way to boost up my confidence.maybe i can mack and get her in the sack if i'm lucky. i met her on msn, and she's cute, we exchanged photos and saw each other on the webcam so i think she kinda digged me in the looks departament. this our first date so i don't really know if i should treat like a friend first and try to get a 2nd or 3rd date or if i should show my intentions right away

what i'm planning to use

- open questions + interesting convo

- kino

- be myself

- funny

anything else you might want to add here or some advice you wanna give, i'm kinda rusty in the dating scene :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah: don't over do it. Review the DJ bible for anything your rusty on and just be yourself. Do this, be confident, and remember the DJ Bible and their is a VERY high chance that everything will go well. Good Luck Don Juan!
 
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My last internet date was a 45 minute long fiasco. She was an 8 that became a 6 IRL. Don't get your hopes up too much, but good luck.
 
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sup man. godspeed i hope everything goes well. confidence is key. that's all i know.

my personal style is to "make my intentions known" on the 2nd date. but others may view that as weak.

review the bible. have confidence in yourself. you got this.

have fun, too. heh

-JP
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're planning on? Just do it man. Don't use it as if it's something you never tried before.
 
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remember to have fun.
 
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