Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Have a date tonight with a 7.Wish me luck

NoMoreAFC

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yeah that's right she's living very far from where i live and she's coming tonight on purpous to see me. this is my first date since i broke up with my ex, and it's a good way to boost up my confidence.maybe i can mack and get her in the sack if i'm lucky. i met her on msn, and she's cute, we exchanged photos and saw each other on the webcam so i think she kinda digged me in the looks departament. this our first date so i don't really know if i should treat like a friend first and try to get a 2nd or 3rd date or if i should show my intentions right away

what i'm planning to use

- open questions + interesting convo

- kino

- be myself

- funny

anything else you might want to add here or some advice you wanna give, i'm kinda rusty in the dating scene :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah: don't over do it. Review the DJ bible for anything your rusty on and just be yourself. Do this, be confident, and remember the DJ Bible and their is a VERY high chance that everything will go well. Good Luck Don Juan!
 

HereToImprove

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My last internet date was a 45 minute long fiasco. She was an 8 that became a 6 IRL. Don't get your hopes up too much, but good luck.
 

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sup man. godspeed i hope everything goes well. confidence is key. that's all i know.

my personal style is to "make my intentions known" on the 2nd date. but others may view that as weak.

review the bible. have confidence in yourself. you got this.

have fun, too. heh

-JP
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tactic

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You're planning on? Just do it man. Don't use it as if it's something you never tried before.
 

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welcome to my world
remember to have fun.
 
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