Have a date today

[DonJuanabe]

Going back to a strategy I used about 10 years ago when I was dirt poor -- first date is... shooting hoops at a local outdoor bball court. Talk about inexpensive -- but fun! The opportunity for kino is there because most girls don't know how to shoot a basketball, but the primary motivation is keeping it active, light, and fun. I'm taking a page from Backbreaker and am there to shoot hoops and enjoy the nice day -- if the girl and I really click then that's bonus and perhaps we'll grab a bite to eat afterwards.

I need this after getting played by the last girl I went out with (admittedly I should have taken off the blinders because I had that gut feeling but wouldn't admit it to myself).

Will let you guys know how it goes.

 

[Eternal_water]

Sounds like a good idea actually,

its not generic ie. dinner + movie, cinema, restaurant, bar, cafe

its genuinely fun

light hearted

active

cheap

and like you say great oppurtunities for kino

also get to show your skill at something and teach her

 

[DonJuanabe]

Fun date but not interested -- lifestyles are too different. Damn was my A-game on. Kind of feel bad because she made it clear she wanted a second date.