"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm seeing this girl from class for coffee tomorrow however in the same class, she has a friend that is very very hot. I have C/F'ed the hell out of this girl with success and bumped into her today and chatted for a bit (with real heavy c/f and some kino -- she had some smudge on her face and I got it for her). I did not # close because I am seeing her friend for coffee.

Do you think the next time I talk with her, I should do the close? I'm not sure how close their friendship is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by suikeisuru
I'm seeing this girl from class for coffee tomorrow however in the same class, she has a friend that is very very hot. I have C/F'ed the hell out of this girl with success and bumped into her today and chatted for a bit (with real heavy c/f and some kino -- she had some smudge on her face and I got it for her). I did not # close because I am seeing her friend for coffee.

Do you think the next time I talk with her, I should do the close? I'm not sure how close their friendship is.
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I will # close on her before class tomorrow as she usually comes to class alone (so I can be sure her friend who I am not seeing tomorrow for coffee will not overhear us!).
 
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Me: Yo! Booger face (she did a Yo rocky voice to me the other day)
HB8: hey!
Me: Next week you should join me for coffee.
HB8: OK

Successful # close.
 
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