"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have a coffee date with friend

suikeisuru

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I'm seeing this girl from class for coffee tomorrow however in the same class, she has a friend that is very very hot. I have C/F'ed the hell out of this girl with success and bumped into her today and chatted for a bit (with real heavy c/f and some kino -- she had some smudge on her face and I got it for her). I did not # close because I am seeing her friend for coffee.

Do you think the next time I talk with her, I should do the close? I'm not sure how close their friendship is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by suikeisuru
I'm seeing this girl from class for coffee tomorrow however in the same class, she has a friend that is very very hot. I have C/F'ed the hell out of this girl with success and bumped into her today and chatted for a bit (with real heavy c/f and some kino -- she had some smudge on her face and I got it for her). I did not # close because I am seeing her friend for coffee.

Do you think the next time I talk with her, I should do the close? I'm not sure how close their friendship is.

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I will # close on her before class tomorrow as she usually comes to class alone (so I can be sure her friend who I am not seeing tomorrow for coffee will not overhear us!).
 

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Me: Yo! Booger face (she did a Yo rocky voice to me the other day)
HB8: hey!
Me: Next week you should join me for coffee.
HB8: OK

Successful # close.
 
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