"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm seeing this girl from class for coffee tomorrow however in the same class, she has a friend that is very very hot. I have C/F'ed the hell out of this girl with success and bumped into her today and chatted for a bit (with real heavy c/f and some kino -- she had some smudge on her face and I got it for her). I did not # close because I am seeing her friend for coffee.

Do you think the next time I talk with her, I should do the close? I'm not sure how close their friendship is.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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Originally posted by suikeisuru
I'm seeing this girl from class for coffee tomorrow however in the same class, she has a friend that is very very hot. I have C/F'ed the hell out of this girl with success and bumped into her today and chatted for a bit (with real heavy c/f and some kino -- she had some smudge on her face and I got it for her). I did not # close because I am seeing her friend for coffee.

Do you think the next time I talk with her, I should do the close? I'm not sure how close their friendship is.
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I will # close on her before class tomorrow as she usually comes to class alone (so I can be sure her friend who I am not seeing tomorrow for coffee will not overhear us!).
 
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Me: Yo! Booger face (she did a Yo rocky voice to me the other day)
HB8: hey!
Me: Next week you should join me for coffee.
HB8: OK

Successful # close.
 
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