"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Haunting a Hamster Brain: Go ghost.

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Same as in going No Contact = Ghost.

A chick tries to play you, sleeps with someone else or any kind of non-tolerable behavior should be treated with the ghost of you.

No calls, texts, emails, Flakebook, seeing one another etc.

Disappear completely.

You never know what better person life has in store for you if you stay with someone who disrespects, cheats, or mistreats you.

Trust me. If you cheated/ mistreated a good chick and she left YOU never to be seen or heard from in any way, shape, or form it would drive you insane thinking about it.

Haunt that hamster brain of hers with your memory and her own stupidity while you learn from the experience and move on. Period.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Food for thought buddy.

I'm into a third round of nc (once she restarted, once i did) but this is now 5 months straight.... i ended all contact.....

Wouldnt mind banging her again.....but i'll just drop it into a hi when i see her....maybe years from now........

Until then GHOST ;) Have you ever had any follow ups from girls because of it?
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Same as in going No Contact = Ghost.

A chick tries to play you, sleeps with someone else or any kind of non-tolerable behavior should be treated with the ghost of you.

No calls, texts, emails, Flakebook, seeing one another etc.

Disappear completely.

You never know what better person life has in store for you if you stay with someone who disrespects, cheats, or mistreats you.

Trust me. If you cheated/ mistreated a good chick and she left YOU never to be seen or heard from in any way, shape, or form it would drive you insane thinking about it.

Haunt that hamster brain of hers with your memory and her own stupidity while you learn from the experience and move on. Period.
Brilliant.
 

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TonyBaloney said:
Food for thought buddy.

I'm into a third round of nc (once she restarted, once i did) but this is now 5 months straight.... i ended all contact.....

Wouldnt mind banging her again.....but i'll just drop it into a hi when i see her....maybe years from now........

Until then GHOST ;) Have you ever had any follow ups from girls because of it?

Last ex. I cut all contact period. About a month later sent me an email with picture attachments of us. Kindof like a scrapbook thing she had made of us. Never read it. I just deleted it within a minute of getting it and moved on. I've done that with a few other chicks. Never kept tabs on them.

It also works on ex-so called friends. You wind up with 'friends' who try to drag you down etc. Best to cut them out of your life completely too.

I don't want or 'expect' results from chicks out of going ghost. Just results for myself. Learn from it. Better yourself. And move on and foward. No looking back.
 
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