"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haunting a Hamster Brain: Go ghost.

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Same as in going No Contact = Ghost.

A chick tries to play you, sleeps with someone else or any kind of non-tolerable behavior should be treated with the ghost of you.

No calls, texts, emails, Flakebook, seeing one another etc.

Disappear completely.

You never know what better person life has in store for you if you stay with someone who disrespects, cheats, or mistreats you.

Trust me. If you cheated/ mistreated a good chick and she left YOU never to be seen or heard from in any way, shape, or form it would drive you insane thinking about it.

Haunt that hamster brain of hers with your memory and her own stupidity while you learn from the experience and move on. Period.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TonyBaloney

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Food for thought buddy.

I'm into a third round of nc (once she restarted, once i did) but this is now 5 months straight.... i ended all contact.....

Wouldnt mind banging her again.....but i'll just drop it into a hi when i see her....maybe years from now........

Until then GHOST ;) Have you ever had any follow ups from girls because of it?
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Same as in going No Contact = Ghost.

A chick tries to play you, sleeps with someone else or any kind of non-tolerable behavior should be treated with the ghost of you.

No calls, texts, emails, Flakebook, seeing one another etc.

Disappear completely.

You never know what better person life has in store for you if you stay with someone who disrespects, cheats, or mistreats you.

Trust me. If you cheated/ mistreated a good chick and she left YOU never to be seen or heard from in any way, shape, or form it would drive you insane thinking about it.

Haunt that hamster brain of hers with your memory and her own stupidity while you learn from the experience and move on. Period.
Brilliant.
 

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TonyBaloney said:
Food for thought buddy.

I'm into a third round of nc (once she restarted, once i did) but this is now 5 months straight.... i ended all contact.....

Wouldnt mind banging her again.....but i'll just drop it into a hi when i see her....maybe years from now........

Until then GHOST ;) Have you ever had any follow ups from girls because of it?

Last ex. I cut all contact period. About a month later sent me an email with picture attachments of us. Kindof like a scrapbook thing she had made of us. Never read it. I just deleted it within a minute of getting it and moved on. I've done that with a few other chicks. Never kept tabs on them.

It also works on ex-so called friends. You wind up with 'friends' who try to drag you down etc. Best to cut them out of your life completely too.

I don't want or 'expect' results from chicks out of going ghost. Just results for myself. Learn from it. Better yourself. And move on and foward. No looking back.
 
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