"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hats okay on a date?

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green69

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I am going to see a movie with this girl this week and I wanted to wear a knitted hat like this.

http://i2.iofferphoto.com/img/1160895600/_i/14694734/1.jpg

My hair is kind of long/messy right now and I don't plan on getting it cut till next weekend. I actually think it looks good with the long hair and I have gotten a couple compliments but are hats a no-no on a date? I guess worst comes to worse I can play it off like a winter thing cause it's cold outside?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't sweat it man... Do whats comfortable for you and don't question yourself.

If she teases you about it, smack her upside the head and tell her she's put on some weight since u seen her last and has dandruff.

cheers bro, have fun on the date.
 
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If it fits your style and you can pull it off, then do it.
 
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Wear what YOU want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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