"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hats okay on a date?

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green69

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I am going to see a movie with this girl this week and I wanted to wear a knitted hat like this.

http://i2.iofferphoto.com/img/1160895600/_i/14694734/1.jpg

My hair is kind of long/messy right now and I don't plan on getting it cut till next weekend. I actually think it looks good with the long hair and I have gotten a couple compliments but are hats a no-no on a date? I guess worst comes to worse I can play it off like a winter thing cause it's cold outside?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't sweat it man... Do whats comfortable for you and don't question yourself.

If she teases you about it, smack her upside the head and tell her she's put on some weight since u seen her last and has dandruff.

cheers bro, have fun on the date.
 
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If it fits your style and you can pull it off, then do it.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Wear what YOU want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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