Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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hate this.

suavesuave

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hate when i spend so much time exchanging emails then asking her out and she says she is busy. Now she says she is going to indianand will be back in sept and asked me if i would be still in the city by sept. stupid *****.

why did they have to give me their emails if they dont wanna go out. wtf. they are wasting their time and my time exchanging emails.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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daygameguy

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suavesuave said:
hate when i spend so much time exchanging emails then asking her out and she says she is busy. Now she says she is going to indianand will be back in sept and asked me if i would be still in the city by sept. stupid *****.

why did they have to give me their emails if they dont wanna go out. wtf. they are wasting their time and my time exchanging emails.
Don't bother. Busy = reject unless there is a valid reason.
 

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you should have quickly moved from email to phone call to live date in no more than 2 convos per medium. Hell the point is to meet in person. Why are you wasting time sending tons of emails. She lost interest man.

Your second or third email, ask for a phone number. When you called her, asked her to met up. If she refuses, move on. You invested too much time and now look at you, crying to us about it.

Don't cry to us because you screwed up. Learn something from this. Don't waste all that damn time talkin on email. Real life is where the game is played. Remember this lesson you've learned today.
 

suavesuave

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warriro,

she doesnt have a cell phone man...she is a visa student.
 

Telos

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You're not going to get too far with women if you're trying to run game behind a computer monitor.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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suavesuave

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hey
its not my fault she doesnt have a fukcin phone. i got her email and thats all i can do ...u want me to fkin buy her a phone..idiot
 

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LOL.

Seems like her not wanting to go out with you is the least of your problems...
 

Telos

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suavesuave said:
hey
its not my fault she doesnt have a fukcin phone. i got her email and thats all i can do ...u want me to fkin buy her a phone..idiot
I want you to get out of the house and find another woman.
 

AKA FLEX

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suavesuave said:
hey
its not my fault she doesnt have a fukcin phone. i got her email and thats all i can do ...u want me to fkin buy her a phone..idiot
This reminds me of the old joke: Why are laundromats bad places to meet women?

Because a woman who can't even afford a washing machine will never be able to support you.

Dude, she can't even get a GO phone? Unless slumming is a hobby of yours, go find a chick with at least a little higher of a socioeconomic standing. Your wallet will thank you.
 
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