"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hate this.

suavesuave

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hate when i spend so much time exchanging emails then asking her out and she says she is busy. Now she says she is going to indianand will be back in sept and asked me if i would be still in the city by sept. stupid *****.

why did they have to give me their emails if they dont wanna go out. wtf. they are wasting their time and my time exchanging emails.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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daygameguy

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suavesuave said:
hate when i spend so much time exchanging emails then asking her out and she says she is busy. Now she says she is going to indianand will be back in sept and asked me if i would be still in the city by sept. stupid *****.

why did they have to give me their emails if they dont wanna go out. wtf. they are wasting their time and my time exchanging emails.
Don't bother. Busy = reject unless there is a valid reason.
 

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you should have quickly moved from email to phone call to live date in no more than 2 convos per medium. Hell the point is to meet in person. Why are you wasting time sending tons of emails. She lost interest man.

Your second or third email, ask for a phone number. When you called her, asked her to met up. If she refuses, move on. You invested too much time and now look at you, crying to us about it.

Don't cry to us because you screwed up. Learn something from this. Don't waste all that damn time talkin on email. Real life is where the game is played. Remember this lesson you've learned today.
 

suavesuave

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warriro,

she doesnt have a cell phone man...she is a visa student.
 

Telos

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You're not going to get too far with women if you're trying to run game behind a computer monitor.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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suavesuave

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hey
its not my fault she doesnt have a fukcin phone. i got her email and thats all i can do ...u want me to fkin buy her a phone..idiot
 

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LOL.

Seems like her not wanting to go out with you is the least of your problems...
 

Telos

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suavesuave said:
hey
its not my fault she doesnt have a fukcin phone. i got her email and thats all i can do ...u want me to fkin buy her a phone..idiot
I want you to get out of the house and find another woman.
 

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suavesuave said:
hey
its not my fault she doesnt have a fukcin phone. i got her email and thats all i can do ...u want me to fkin buy her a phone..idiot
This reminds me of the old joke: Why are laundromats bad places to meet women?

Because a woman who can't even afford a washing machine will never be able to support you.

Dude, she can't even get a GO phone? Unless slumming is a hobby of yours, go find a chick with at least a little higher of a socioeconomic standing. Your wallet will thank you.
 
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