“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hate my degree, going back to school for IT. Advice?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thought I'd update.

So I didn't go back to school. I completed a couple of certifications (A+, N+) and finally landed a job with a regional not-for-profit. I'm making the highest salary I've ever made, and actually about 4 dollars an hour more than what the Fortune 500 company I interviewed with had offered me. Im not making a fvk-ton of money, but definitely more than what I expected to get based on the comparable starting salaries for similar jobs with no professional IT experience.

I was actually surprised that a non-profit that gets a bulk of its money from federal grants, would actually pay more than a private sector job. What's even more surprising is that this is a job in the burbs, and similar jobs down in the city are really low-balling entry level IT professionals as well. Im talking like city companies offering 15$ an hr or less, which isn't terrible in some of the small suburban towns near me, but is definitely not great for a job in NYC.

The health benefits are decent, but not great. And the time-off is about on par with what federal employees get starting out. The company even offers education reimbursement, so I'll be taking advantage of that for more certifications and maybe even a Master's one day.

Anyways, the career change took me a little time, but I finally feel like I found my calling. Thanks to everyone who gave me some good advice in the thread.

EDIT - What really got me noticed by the hiring managers was my degree combined with my certs and technical aptitude. They said the college degree made me stand out. So I hope any men who ever read this post know the value that a good education can bring.

The best combo though is education, certs, and experience. I think I made it over the experience hurdle due to my personality and technical knowledge from years of working with computers (despite it not being professional experience.)
 
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Get a CDL, do a trade.... more rewarding and no women around. Do your IT on the weekend.

Oh its you Jaylan... lol. Also do that Security+, Linux and Ethical Hacker. I know a black guy down in Texas who is doing REALLY well with those certs.

Come to think of it, I have a friend who is working as a forklift driver, the guy CODES in his spare time. He wrote a program to help him do his work on the forklift. He went to Uni but I guess dropped midway cause he couldn't stand the leftist narrative everywhere. Anyway, he's a smart guy and I've been telling him to go apply for a programming position at his company. What small certs would help this guy? He probably won't listen to me but it would be nice to know.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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