"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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loveshogun

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So I've been getting into a lot of arguments lately with people on here. I feel the ill will directed towards me will distract from the environment of support and self-criticality that is central to SoSuave.

So there. If you have beef with Love Shogun, take it out here, instead of in those other threads where people are actually trying to learn something.

Aaaaaand... go!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Groovy

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Guy's a fucking asshole.
 

loveshogun

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Groovy said:
Guy's a fucking asshole.
For everyone who can't see it, he meant to say "guy's a f*ckin a*shole."
 

Groovy

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Yeah man I don't know how to bypass the filter... LOL.
 
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