"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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loveshogun

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So I've been getting into a lot of arguments lately with people on here. I feel the ill will directed towards me will distract from the environment of support and self-criticality that is central to SoSuave.

So there. If you have beef with Love Shogun, take it out here, instead of in those other threads where people are actually trying to learn something.

Aaaaaand... go!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Groovy

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Guy's a fucking asshole.
 

loveshogun

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Groovy said:
Guy's a fucking asshole.
For everyone who can't see it, he meant to say "guy's a f*ckin a*shole."
 

Groovy

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Yeah man I don't know how to bypass the filter... LOL.
 
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