Crissco
Master Don Juan
This may sound like a dumb question but does wearing a hat make you look more seductive/mysterious? And would it be beneficial in anyway? Im talking about wearing it normal (fowards) with it a bit over your eyes.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hat or no hat?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It can make you stand out from the herd, like a mild form of peacocking. Nowadays when its not the standard to wear hats its a bit like a statement, and its has a masculine old school aura to it, unlike some forms of metrosexual douchebaggery some guys use to stand out.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
if it fits the style/your style - ie hip hop style its ok
if its a fluffy cowboy hat like mystery method followers do = fu.cking retarded = and way too try hard
i knew a guy at uni who read The Game, and started wearing little wrist bands and some eye shaddow, he just look like a gay boy, and it never really got people opening him
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you can "peacock" much more sublty
eg
- wearing a red (ie different) shirt in a club when every one else is wearing black/white shirts (saw this on a clip of "keys to the VIP")
(on rsd some people have gone out in a "twighlight" movie t-shirt just coz its funny as f.uck - sefl amusement - and take balls and everyone is reacting to you) = DHV
- certain accessories (dont be like "ooo look at my REAL expensive watch" ...the quickest way to turn women off!)
- ripped body (dont seek validation for your guns, or be lame showign them off... be subtle about it.. like a t shirt that shows your physique but acting like your normal = alpha )
if its a fluffy cowboy hat like mystery method followers do = fu.cking retarded = and way too try hard
i knew a guy at uni who read The Game, and started wearing little wrist bands and some eye shaddow, he just look like a gay boy, and it never really got people opening him
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you can "peacock" much more sublty
eg
- wearing a red (ie different) shirt in a club when every one else is wearing black/white shirts (saw this on a clip of "keys to the VIP")
(on rsd some people have gone out in a "twighlight" movie t-shirt just coz its funny as f.uck - sefl amusement - and take balls and everyone is reacting to you) = DHV
- certain accessories (dont be like "ooo look at my REAL expensive watch" ...the quickest way to turn women off!)
- ripped body (dont seek validation for your guns, or be lame showign them off... be subtle about it.. like a t shirt that shows your physique but acting like your normal = alpha )
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I realize you're just asking a simple question, and not trying to make a big deal out of it. But keep this in mind:
If you wear something you don't feel comfortable wearing (physically and mentally), that discomfort will manifest itself. You will convey that discomfort to the rest of the world. Also, the act of putting something on in order to impress someone else more than yourself is an act of neediness, which also manifests itself for all to see.
If you wear something you don't feel comfortable wearing (physically and mentally), that discomfort will manifest itself. You will convey that discomfort to the rest of the world. Also, the act of putting something on in order to impress someone else more than yourself is an act of neediness, which also manifests itself for all to see.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I cant agree more with that statement, thats basically the Law of Attraction right there. And also it was never to impress anyone. I was asking if wearing it a certain way makes it look more mysterious, simple lol.Galactus said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Hats tend to seem fairly pretentious or "try hard" to most people these days.
In fact, by coincindence, I seriously just wrote a guitar instrumental yesterday that I called, "Hats are Pretentious". Hey, you have to call it something. What kind of hat are you wearing?
In fact, by coincindence, I seriously just wrote a guitar instrumental yesterday that I called, "Hats are Pretentious". Hey, you have to call it something. What kind of hat are you wearing?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
LOL That was pretty funny. I honestly just wear my hat because on certain days its easier then to do my hair. im wearing a hat like thisAtom Smasher said:
http://www.amazon.com/Giants-Basic-Brushed-Structured-Adjustable/dp/B0000DKNYY
Oh, that's cool. I thought you were talking about one of those big dorky fedoras or something retarded like that.
That's not a hat, that's a cap.
I wear one sometimes when I'm out in the sun because I have a shaved head and sunburn sucks. The only downside to wearing a hat or cap of any kind, is that I know a lot of women think that if a guy is wearing one, it's because he has a bald spot. And quite often, that's true.
That's not a hat, that's a cap.
I wear one sometimes when I'm out in the sun because I have a shaved head and sunburn sucks. The only downside to wearing a hat or cap of any kind, is that I know a lot of women think that if a guy is wearing one, it's because he has a bald spot. And quite often, that's true.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Oh, around here we differentiate those by calling them "caps". Those are cool really no matter what your age. I will now have to re-write my song to exclude caps.Crissco said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
LOL No I would never wear old of those gay ass hats. Never even thought of that. Im the exact opposite, I have full head of hair thank god.Galactus said:
LOL and what do u consider a real hat?
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
It's funny how hats have changed over the years. It looks like back in the day (30's, 40's) most men wore them (at least in big cities). Also in the late 1800s. Nowadays, every time I see a guy wearing a hat he looks kind of try-hard and douchey to me. Baseball or golf caps seem to not have that same stigma.
Yes, as I type this, I am fully aware that we (more accurately, I) are beating this simple subject to death. I gues it's because I just wrote my song, "Hats are Pretentious". I laughed out loud when I saw this post right after I penned my very last note of the song.
Yes, as I type this, I am fully aware that we (more accurately, I) are beating this simple subject to death. I gues it's because I just wrote my song, "Hats are Pretentious". I laughed out loud when I saw this post right after I penned my very last note of the song.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Interesting...
While I'm looking around other threads, I'm getting ads for men's hats! Marketing has come a long way.
While I'm looking around other threads, I'm getting ads for men's hats! Marketing has come a long way.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.