"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let's start with how I proceed with phone calls so my post makes sense. I usually go out on Sat nights and meet women. If I number close I will only call them 2 times to setup a date (Mon and Wed) or next them if I have not received a call back. If there was really good rapport and I feel like playing the game, I will call only one more time and that will be the following Mon.

So, I went to a club last Sat and met some women there. I was able to build
rapport with them and easily number close. I then waited till Monday and called them all up hoping to plan a Starbucks date with each of them. Out of the 4 numbers I called 1 picked up and setup a date with me (for tonight) and the other 3 I left Voicemail messages.

Yesterday, 2 out of the other 3 called me back and we setup dates to meet for coffee. Today I called the other one to give her one last chance at a date (She was not worth a following Monday call) I was a little surprised at what happened next.

Shortly after I receive a text message that says the following:
"Hi i do not remember u. please stop calling me. thx"

Wow... I'm not really worried about it and honestly it's kind of funny to me. This woman was not only all over me dancing with me, but bought me a drink at the bar and she "GAVE" me her number. I'm sure if she came by my place I could help her jog her memory :crackup:

Has this happened to anyone before? I'd love to hear that I'm not the only one this has happened to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't leave voice messages EVER!

The girl was probally too drunk too remember or realized she had a creepy message on her phone and got freaked out.
 
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The rude girl was probably pretty drunk when you met her. Nice job on getting 2 out of 3 callbacks. 3 dates off of 4 numbers is great.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Don't leave voice messages EVER!

The girl was probally too drunk too remember or realized she had a creepy message on her phone and got freaked out.
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Possibly as she did have some drinks, but I've never had this problem up till now as far as leaving a voicemail.

I always here mixed ideas about leaving a voicemail as some say don't and others say always. I usually do it because these days with caller id, many people will not return phone calls from numbers they do not know and since I don't give out my number...
 
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Maxtro said:
The rude girl was probably pretty drunk when you met her. Nice job on getting 2 out of 3 callbacks. 3 dates off of 4 numbers is great.
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I don't feel bad about it. It's good to have other plates spinning. :up:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Good work on playing the numbers game my man.

If someone does not pickup I ALWAYS leave a voicemail and 99% of the time they call back as soon as they are availabe.

As for this girl who doesnt remember - send her a text back saying

'stop stalking me already'
 
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why are you setting up day dates all the time on starbucks?
 
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Ostepop said:
why are you setting up day dates all the time on starbucks?
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Aye - starbucks is pricey. Why not go for a 40p coffee from Mcdonalds ha.
 
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