"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Let's start with how I proceed with phone calls so my post makes sense. I usually go out on Sat nights and meet women. If I number close I will only call them 2 times to setup a date (Mon and Wed) or next them if I have not received a call back. If there was really good rapport and I feel like playing the game, I will call only one more time and that will be the following Mon.

So, I went to a club last Sat and met some women there. I was able to build
rapport with them and easily number close. I then waited till Monday and called them all up hoping to plan a Starbucks date with each of them. Out of the 4 numbers I called 1 picked up and setup a date with me (for tonight) and the other 3 I left Voicemail messages.

Yesterday, 2 out of the other 3 called me back and we setup dates to meet for coffee. Today I called the other one to give her one last chance at a date (She was not worth a following Monday call) I was a little surprised at what happened next.

Shortly after I receive a text message that says the following:
"Hi i do not remember u. please stop calling me. thx"

Wow... I'm not really worried about it and honestly it's kind of funny to me. This woman was not only all over me dancing with me, but bought me a drink at the bar and she "GAVE" me her number. I'm sure if she came by my place I could help her jog her memory :crackup:

Has this happened to anyone before? I'd love to hear that I'm not the only one this has happened to.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't leave voice messages EVER!

The girl was probally too drunk too remember or realized she had a creepy message on her phone and got freaked out.
 
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The rude girl was probably pretty drunk when you met her. Nice job on getting 2 out of 3 callbacks. 3 dates off of 4 numbers is great.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Don't leave voice messages EVER!

The girl was probally too drunk too remember or realized she had a creepy message on her phone and got freaked out.
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Possibly as she did have some drinks, but I've never had this problem up till now as far as leaving a voicemail.

I always here mixed ideas about leaving a voicemail as some say don't and others say always. I usually do it because these days with caller id, many people will not return phone calls from numbers they do not know and since I don't give out my number...
 
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Maxtro said:
The rude girl was probably pretty drunk when you met her. Nice job on getting 2 out of 3 callbacks. 3 dates off of 4 numbers is great.
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I don't feel bad about it. It's good to have other plates spinning. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good work on playing the numbers game my man.

If someone does not pickup I ALWAYS leave a voicemail and 99% of the time they call back as soon as they are availabe.

As for this girl who doesnt remember - send her a text back saying

'stop stalking me already'
 
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why are you setting up day dates all the time on starbucks?
 
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Ostepop said:
why are you setting up day dates all the time on starbucks?
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Aye - starbucks is pricey. Why not go for a 40p coffee from Mcdonalds ha.
 
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